Bercinta lepas kawen?

Susahnya nak bercinta lepas kahwin. Can't believe I am saying this but this is so true. Ok. My last post was about this lah kan lebih kurang but this is kinda the mix language punya versi.

Lepas kahwin, immediately terus macam terikat dengan satu komitmen rumahtangga. Yg wife, sibuk kena uruskan rumah this and that. Yg husband, banyak fikir pasal future plans for family. Bukan plan nak tambah family yer, well I am speaking about my husband. Yelah, nak beli rumah, nak settle down especially for newlywed kan. So macam dah terikat sangat dgn komitmen tu sampai nak duduk berdua and just sit together and talk about us pon kadang tak sempat. Yang sempatnya talk about work, pastu cakap pasal planning. Nak masak apa, apa nak buat, barang apa nak kena beli. 

Life as a new married couple has been so busy that we forget to bercinta again. 

Padahal, seronok kot, jalan saja2 pegang-pegang tangan and such. Making jokes. Sembang other than our circle of life. 

Kes tu lah yg si husband boleh cakap, dah lama kan kita tak macam ni? Padahal dah kawen and weekend wajib jumpa! Hah.

Yes. We missed that. And I dont want it to be a habit among both of us. Sebab taknak lose the sparkle. It's been almost 5 years kan kitorang, so the tendency utk relationship jadi dull tu macam kuat la jugak. But i dont want that. 

Sebab tu in maintaining a relationship perlukan banyak usaha and kesabaran. It is not easy you know. Especially bila semua benda kita boleh buat sendiri. But women, please please I beg you, ego berdikari tu jangan letak tinggi sangat eh. No matter how independent you are, here is a fact, you cannot live alone! Ingat tu je. And as for married women, please respect your husband. Jangan perlekehkan dia. Because guees what, bila dia selalu diperlekehkan kat rumah oleh wife, and outside ada orang puji dia, dia kembang semangkuk lain macam and we dont want that. (Applicable to women as well)

Kalau perasan kan, ada sesetengah couple tu susah sgt nak puji spouse dia. Takde hal pon kalau nak cakap husband kita ni hensem. Baik kau yg cakap husband kau hensem, and buat dia syok, dari perempuan lain yg cakap mcm tu. It's what I think and I learned from experience of almost losing this guy lah. 

Haha. Tu je nak rant sebenarnya. Macam sikit je nak rant tadi. Tak sangka banyak plak. Sebab malas nak update Twitter banyak2 kot nanti jadi annoying plak. Kalau kt sni, orang taknak baca takpe, nasihat utk future me jugak. Hehe. 

Ok. To all, bercinta lah dengan pasangan masing-masing k. Jap nak semakkan post dengan gambar. 

Kat padang polo. Bercinta weh!

Nampak serius kan? Dia tengah baca buku rekod servis blue.

Dia suka sangat kalau wife pakai lipstick merah. Tak fahammm. 

K. Tu jer post kali ni. Jangat meluat pulak. Muahh.